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Why I Love The Red Table Talk!

Hey Cuties,

I have a lot of favorite things right now, and I will share them with you. I also want to know what your favorites are right now. My new favorite is the Red Table Talk it is a Facebook Show (Facebook Watch) featuring Jada Pinkett Smith, her daughter Willow, and mother Adrienne – three generations of women open their home for a series of candid conversations with family and friends.  They are real and they are only a few episodes in, but it is so freaking good.

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Photo Credit: Red Table Talk Facebook Page

They do an episode on Monday and then a Facebook LIVE on Wednesday. Episode 1 came out 10 days ago and has 24.8 M views. It was so incredibly good that they followed that episode up with a LIVE Q&A session.  I grew up in an extremely blended family (Aunts and Uncles) but my family in my home is not and was not blended.  My eyes got watery as I watched and I was sucked all the way in. Jada sat with her husband’s ex-wife and they discussed their journey of blending families and how it did and did not work. LISTEN LINDA! If you have a blended family this is an absolute must watch. If you don’t have a blended family you should watch. At the end of all of this, it is just incredible girl talk.

Let me start with the show topics thus far:

Episode 1: In the premiere episode of Red Table Talk, Jada Pinkett Smith is joined by Will Smith’s ex-wife, Sheree Fletcher for an intimate conversation around their blended family.

Episode 2: Jada invites Sheree back for a LIVE Q&A about blended families, co-mothering, and more!

Episode 3: Jada Pinkett Smith, Willow Smith and Adrienne come together to share a special message to celebrate Mother’s Day.

Episode 4: This week around the Red Table, Jada Pinkett Smith reveals the impact of the tragic death of her longtime best friend, Tupac Shakur. While Willow Smith shares a painful secret for the first time.

Episode 5: Jada Pinkett Smith, Willow Smith, and Adrienne are back for a LIVE Q&A surrounding the impact of loss and how it varies for everyone. Ask them your questions and share your stories in the comments below.

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Photo Credit: @bpeppersart

With every topic they have covered I was able to take away something from it.

1st Topic: Blended Families/Co-Mothering
While this is not my personal experience as a woman I can relate to some of their feelings and concerns as a mother. More importantly, it helped me see how we can misconstrue a situation. Even though you have the greatest intentions, and a heart of gold it may not be received the way you intended.

It also shut down the notion that women can’t and don’t get along. They talked it out as grown women, they also had to check the people around them who were not onboard with their way of blending their family. Not checking folks can make things unnecessarily complicated. Not everyone is on board with how you live your life and that is okay. They don’t have to be, and you don’t need them to be. However, you do need to let them know to stay in their lane and dismiss them from your life if they don’t want to fall in line.

2nd Topic: Mother’s Day
This episode they shared all things about motherhood. Naturally, this is one we can talk about forever. My Mom was my example of motherhood. She taught me what I wanted to be and did not want to be as a Mom. No shade! We have opposite personalities and she is a baby boomer and I’m a Generation X. A lot changed from her time to mine. Despite that, she and my grandmother gave me a great example, of what it looks like to put your children first. The importance of being an example you want them to see. I take motherhood seriously and I’m thankful for their love because it made me the incredible Mom that I am to the Manchild and LittleCuteLips.

3rd Topic: Surviving Loss
This was an interesting one for me, right before they filmed Jada got a call telling her one of her friends had died. She composed herself and they went on with the show. She talked about the many people that have died in her life and most notably Tupac. It made me think of my own experience with death.

I was sixteen years old when I experienced a death that I could remember. Matter of fact my friend and would be sister in law (I married her brother 2 years later) died the day after my 16th birthday. At that moment I grew up fast and I didn’t even realize it was happening. I stepped up and was the single support system for my then boyfriend. I helped him take care of his sisters three kids that were left behind along with his parents. They were 2, 3 and & 7 years old. Although I could not replace his sister, coming into his family did help fill a void in some way. Years later that became a lot of pressure on me. Yall, I was sixteen years old taking on a task that a 40-year-old would be stressed over. That experience changed me, it taught me that I had to be strong for others so I needed to suppress my own feelings.

I just kept going, to this day I never really grieved her death. I divorced that family at 22 years old, although I loved them greatly it was a huge burden (for lack of a better word) that was lifted off of me. The crazy part is for six years I did not even realize what I was doing. A Blogger friend recently shared some information about grief and it made me realize that ever since October 19th, 1996 I have denied my feelings. I am always the strength for others but I don’t allow myself to feel. I’m loving to my kids but I keep everything else inside. I am a nervous breakdown waiting to happen because I have so much bottled up in me because I don’t allow myself to deal or feel. Damn! Going to couples counseling has probably kept me from coming unraveled.

At almost 40 these of topics are right on time. I’m all about self-reflecting and growing and understanding me. I missed out on doing that in my 20’s. If the Red Table Talk sounds like your cup of tea check them out.

Lifestyle Media Correspondent MimiCuteLips shares one of my new favorite shows to watch, the Red Table Talk. It airs on Facebook Watch and features Jada Pinkett Smith, her daughter Willow, and mother Adrienne. This is the girl chat we have been needing. #RedTableTalk

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Article written by:

Mimi Green is the Lifestyle Media Correspondent and editor behind MimiCuteLips®. She is a mother of two and a girlfriend to one. You can find Mimi working media at your favorite events, traveling and trying out new adventures, or working on a dope DIY project.

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  1. Keisha Adinkra

    I haven’t seen the entire show but I’ve seen clips of it. The clips of Willow talking about her dealing with become a celebrity and her cutting was really emotional. I’ll have to follow them on Facebook to keep up with the show.

    • MimiCuteLips

      Yes, that was tough to hear. We act like being famous makes you untouchable when in fact it is just the opposite.

  2. Leslie

    This show is so good! I love that Jada is using the facebook platform and has her mom and daughter involved. It shows how 3 generations have different perspectives but similar struggles. I have taken something away from each episode and can relate so much being a Baltimore native, a mom, a wife , a daughter, in my 40s, a woman ,etc.

    • MimiCuteLips

      Yes! I love that Will has taken over YouTube and Instagram. Now the ladies have taken over Facebook with their own content. I love it!

  3. Tomiko

    I loved episode with husbands ex wife.. they have really grown as women and celebrate each other.. it almost made me want to reach out to my husbands ex wife.. almost but not quite

  4. Kita

    I’ve been watching. It is good and real and honest. Willow is a bit much for me but I love the show regardless.

  5. Elle (CleverlyChanging)

    I love how moms of different backgrounds can relate to this show. I haven’t seen it yet, and I really have no clue how I can fit it into my life schedule but I applaud her family for taking time to let other glean from her parenting experiences.

  6. Joyce Brewer

    I’ve heard nothing but rave reviews about this series. But I haven’t made time to watch it. Thanks for breaking down the episodes. I still think I’ll watch the series in order, though.

  7. Shana

    I’ve been able to catch the first two episodes. I think they’re have touching on a lot of topics that many can relate to.

  8. Judaea

    I love this show as well and it is so needed for women and young women of today

  9. Carissa

    I love Red Table Talk, I dont have a blended family but they had me in tears! I think being a woman you could relate to parts of the story! The episode about Grieving and Loss got me, I think when Willow said she had been cutting herself and Jada didn’t know I was in tears because I have a daughter and girls carry lots of pressure for different reasons…so this was a reminder that even when I think I am paying attention to Emma, pay more attention!

    • MimiCuteLips

      Yes to all of these things Carissa. This is for the ladies and we need to listen and have the conversations. We shoulder the world and then suffer in silence. This is permission to talk it out and get it out.

  10. Sheena

    I saw some of the first episode and I loved Jada and Sheree’s bond. I was cracking up over Sheree’s regifted candle and Jada’s struggle cupcakes.

  11. Bridgid | @HeyBougieMama

    Oh wow, I’m sorry about you losing your friend at such a young age. I definitely deal with grief in a similar way. Really trying to work on dealing with it in a healthy way as we deal with more the older we get. But yes, the Red Table Talk is amazingggggg. These candid and very real talks is what we all need.

    • MimiCuteLips

      Thanks, the crazy thing is until now I just kept going. I never thought about it. I’m just glad that I don’t look like what I have been through.

  12. Kim

    I’ve been hearing this is good! I haven’t yet watched, but everyone is raving about it, especially the time when Willow talked about how she cut herself.

  13. Tyra

    I have been seeing so much about this but I haven’t had a chance to watch. This sounds sooooo good!

  14. Kiwi

    I actuallly need to watch these. I seen a few clippets online but I need to really get into them I love the 3 generations of women dynamic!

  15. Kristen

    I haven’t seen the show yet but I’ve heard so many amazing things about it. Blended families are on the rise and I think it is so important to have transparent conversations centered on positive relationships and healthy communication for the benefit of all. Thank you for posting!

  16. Stacie

    I’ve been seeing snippets of this show everywhere. Even today! I’m definitely going to bookmark this because I love the idea of it.

  17. Kristin

    Absolutely love this show! So needed at this very moment and the topics are all right on time! My favorite has been the loss episode, but the one with the ex wife was so powerful too!

    • MimiCuteLips

      Yes, we certainly needed this. She is helping us, but it looks like she is getting what she needs out of it as well. Yes, ladies!!!

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