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Hello 35, pleased to meet you!

I turn 35 this week {10.18.} and my brain has been in overload; I have a terrible habit of adding unnecessary pressure on myself and turning 35 has only made it worse.
Turning 35
Photo Credit: D. Todd

I’ve been doing a lot of reflecting on where I am in life, if I’m happy or just content. What are the unhappy areas in my life and how will I change them? Have I accomplished enough in life? Is this the career I want for myself? Am I living the best me? I totally sound like Oprah. lol The questions go on and on but I always come back to what is my purpose? God created all of this {insert body roll here} but what is my mission in life? What was I put on this green earth to do? I have no clue, and I’m not sure how to go about finding out yet I’m stressing over not knowing.

Turning 35
Photo Credit: D. Todd

I sit back and think about my life; and all that I have and haven’t accomplished. The odds certainly weren’t in my favor but I’m here and I’m doing it. I made it in-spite of being raised in a single parent household. I have a father that decided he would live his life rather than be involved in mine. His loss. I’ve never been to college but I’ve made this High School diploma do the most. I got married at the age of 18 and was divorced at 22.  Everyone didn’t always like me but there are plenty that love me.  Did I mention my mother battled breast cancer and is now a survivor.

Turning 35
Photo Credit: D. Todd

I have no plans of writing a book but I know I have a page turner on my hands.  When I think about how much I’ve accomplished, and how far I’ve come it makes me smile. Society would have told me I would be on welfare, I wouldn’t be a homeowner, I wouldn’t have a good job, I wouldn’t own my own business, I wouldn’t be this, I wouldn’t be that. I just couldn’t, I wouldn’t and I won’t. I’ve birthed two healthy and beautiful babies. I broke the mold and nursed both of them for 14 months each. {Golden Boobies} I’ve had the best love by my side for the past ten and a half years and counting.

Turning 35
Photo Credit: D. Todd
 There isn’t anything traditional about me or my life but I wouldn’t change it for the world. Good or bad it all made me the woman that I am today.  You can’t judge a book by its cover is indeed true. But beyond the cover to just flip through the pages of life and see what someone’s life has been like.  I’m proud to say at 35 I have lived, I have experienced, I have accomplished so much and I have so much more to accomplish.
HAPPY 35TH BIRTHDAY TO ME!
Turning 35
Photo Credit: D. Todd
 I will continue to give the world flavor by coloring outside of the lines.
 
 
Photo Credit: D. Todd
Makeup: LashedbyLexx
MimiCuteLips Tshirt: Makemybling
Pink 1979 Tshirt: Sun Frog
Black High Low skirt: Choies
Printed skirt: The African Shop
Sneakers: From Mi To You
Black Peeptoe Ankel Strap: Moda Spana @ DSW
Black Cage Sandal: Vince Camuto

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Mimi Green is the Lifestyle Media Correspondent and editor behind MimiCuteLips®. She is a mother of two and a girlfriend to one. You can find Mimi working media at your favorite events, traveling and trying out new adventures, or working on a dope DIY project.

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  1. Ayana Pitterson

    Wow, you look AMAZING in these photos! Happy Pre Birthday. Just to let you know, you don’t look a day over 28! Wishing you much success in your 35th Year.

    Thrifting Diva
    http://www.thriftingdiva.com

  2. xoxo Kellz*

    35??? stop lying lol u look great hun

    Blog here http://www.islandchic77.com/

  3. Natasha Bernard

    Happy Birthday doll. 35 looks amazing on you! You better work!

  4. Mimi

    Yes!!! All of this. Maybe it is something about 35 that evokes introspection. I turned 35 in March and have been battling these thoughts since then and I don’t feel I’m a bit closer to the answer which really makes me think I know the answer I’m just scared to do the work….that’s real talk and a little fear!!

    You look amazing. Loving the photos in the header. Cheers to 35 and many more accomplishments for you and your family!

    Happy Birthday

    • Mimicutelips

      Mimi maybe it is 35, maybe its our name. I don’t know, but I find comfort in knowing I’m not the only one.

      If you know the answer, jump into the work with both feet. 😉

  5. Whitney James

    I LOVE all of this. You have an amazing and inspiring testimony on your hands, my friend. Happy birthday to you! You look amazing in these photos. Enjoy this year and may it bring you much happiness, peace and joy. XO!

  6. Tshenelle Nelly B. Bethel

    happy birthday in advance darling…October peeps are the best xoxo

  7. Glamista Home

    Happy birthday Mimi! Great and inspiring life story, thank you for sharing! Sometime we have to sit back and pat ourselves on the shoulder for all the great things we’ve accomplished despite all the odds. You are an amazing person, I love visiting your blog and the stories you share. Have a great week Mimi!

    • Mimicutelips

      Thanks Glamista, you’re right. It’s so easy for us to pat others on the back. When it comes to ourselves not so much. I need to appreciate myself a little more. Thanks for visiting.

  8. Christina

    35! I am blessed to have known you the last 24/25 years of our lives. You make the word “can’t” extinct. I applaud you for all of your hard work and success and you know like always I am rooting for you in the corner – oh and passing out business cards! LOL

    • Mimicutelips

      Thanks Boo! Thanks for always cheering me on, entertaining my crazy ideas and being a great friend. We have another 35 years of this at least. Smooches!

  9. Ali Dee

    Hey Mimi…

    I LOVED reading this! Kudos to all that you have accomplished thus far. Here’s to at least 35 more great years ahead of you! Happy (early) birthday to you, chica! Move and shake it!

  10. Edwige Amaizo Foltek

    Happt Birthday Honey!!! I totally love your post! I’m just like you! I’ve asked myself those questions on every birthday since I turned 30 ( I turned 34, Oct.3rd) and this time around, I just let it be! I’m grateful for the everyday breath, and all the little things that actually add up:-). You don’t look 35 by the way and you are a beautiful lady! Love your blog and your blog’s name :-)! Very inspiring post!
    Edwige | http://www.hypnozglam.com

    • Mimicutelips

      Thanks Edwige, I never thought of myself as an inspiration but it feels good to know that I’ve inspired others. I’m going to just let it be like you did. When it’s time I will know, I hope. lol Thanks for stopping by.

  11. Lashuntrice Bradley

    Love you photos and Happy Early 35th. You’ve made it. Now there’s a lot more years to go.

  12. Mylah Stanton

    I adore this post! I too turned 35 this year and you’ve made me reflect on the fact that I HAVE accomplished a lot thus far (even when I believe I’ve done nothing…or very little). Thanks for this! Happy belated birthday!

  13. Becky

    Love your style! Especially pairing it with that skirt!

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